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DOCUMENT RESUMEED 086 582AUTHORTITLEINSTITUTIONPUB DATENOTESO 006 754Simon, Sidney B.Am Loveable and Capable. A Modern Allegory of theClassical Put-Down.Argus Communications, Chicago, Ill.I7332p.AVAILABLE FROMArgus Communications, 7440 Natchez Avenue, Niles,Illinois 60648 (Hard Copy may only be purchased inquantities)EDRS PRICEDESCRIPTORSMF- 0.65 HC Not Available from EDRS.Affection; *Allegory; Classroom Materials; *DramaticPlay; Human Dignity; *Humanization; *Human Relations;Individual Needs; Instructional Materials;Interpersonal Relationship; Needs; Self Concept;*Self EsteemABSTRACTThe IALAC (I Am Loveable and Capable) story presentsone day in the life of 14 year old Randy, who puts on his IALAC signeach morning and sets out to face the world. As "put-downs" occur athome and at school, little pieces of his sign are torn away; by theend of the day very little of the sign remains. This allegory is atool for humanistic education which can be used by a teacher,clergyman, student, or any group leader who is concerned with makingpeople feel loveable and capable. It deals with the "put-down," anAmerican idiosyncrasy, which inhibits humanistic values. The contentof the IALAC story can be modified to fit specific groups ordramatized for student participation. (JH)
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The IALAC Storyby Sidney B. Simon, Ed.D.Illustrations by Patricia RyanSidney B. Simon is a pioneer inhumanistic education and ValuesClarification. He is Professorof Humanistic Education at theUniversity of Massachusetts.Patricia Ryan is a freelanceauthor - illustrator from Chicago.With deepest thanks toMerrill HarminandHoward Kirschenbaumwho over the yearshave added important nuancesto this story.Copyright 1973 Argus CommunicationsNiles, Illinois 60648Printed in the United States of America.All rights reserved.No portion of this book may be reproducedin any form withoutthe written permission of the publisher.2.
ERIC CIEVIIIGII0i1SEFCR SCC:41.SDIEkCE EDUCATIONEveryone I know wears one of these signs. Oh, you can't see it,of course, but it's still there, and there's no way I know of thatyou can take it off. The letters stand for some very importantwords. The first word is I. Me. It's a very important word bothto me and, believe it or not, to others. The second letter standsfor Am, and the third for Loveable. I Am Loveable. Of courseI am, and what's more I Am Capable. Yes, I Am Loveable AndCapable. And I want everyone to know it. That's why I'mwearing this sign. Everyone needs a sign like this one becausewe all want people to think of us as being loveable and capable.So many of the things we do every day reflect this need as wesearch out ways to prove it to ourselves and to others.Let me tell you a story about a fourteen year old boy namedRandy from Central City . . .3
IThe sun is just starting to poke its way through the half-opencurtains into Randy's room. The alarm clock goes off like atime bomb, and. Randy fishes around to find the magic buttonthat'll turn off its blaring ring. He finally succeeds and turnsover, snuggling deeper into his comfortable bed. According toRandy's built-in clock about a minute passes by, but actuallyit's been a little longer. There above him stands his motherrousing him with that Monday morning prodding that onlymothers have mastered."Randall Edward, it's time to get up. If you miss your bus,you're going to walk. Now move!"Randy reluctantly climbs out of bed and heads for thebathroom. On his way, a little piece of his IALAC sign fallsonto the carpet. Randy doesn't really notice. It's happenedbefore.4
Randy's little sister Robin is a pleasant enough little girl, exceptto Randy. She seems to delight in making his life miserable.ust as Randy reaches the bathroom door, Robin, her hair incurlers, hairbrush in tow, scoots past him into the bathroom,shouting she'll be late if she doesn't hurry. The door slams andthe lock is thrown. Randy waits . and waits . . . and waitsoutside the door, occasionally knocking and shouting for herto hurry up. Bathrooms, unfortunately, seem to be sanctuariesfor little brothers and sisters, and Randy manages to get inafter a ten minute delay. Robin flits by him as if he doesn'texist, and he has a desperate urge to trip her. He succeeds inspite of her screams for help. His father walks out of thebedroom across the hall and gives him an accusing look."Randy, watch your temper and leave your little sister alone!"Later, Randy comes downstairs for breakfast. As he walks intothe kitchen, he smiles at his mom and dad."Hi, mom, dad, what's for breakfast?" he asks cheerily."Look, Randy, we're all running late this morning, so just eatwhat I put down in front of you," his mother responds.Randy can understand that everyone is in a hurry, but thatdoesn't mean that they have to take it out on him. His feelingsare relieved slightly when what his mother does put down infront of him turns out to be his favoriteCrunchy Granola.5
Just as Randy gulps down his last spoonful of cereal, he seesthe school bus whiz down the street to the bus stop at thecorner. Randy grabs his jacket and books and runs out theback door. He just makes it to the end of the block when thebus pulls away."I know that driver saw me through his rear-view mirror. Whythe heck didn't he stop? I gless I'll just have to hitch to schoolthis morning!I sure hope I'm not late."He starts off down the street. Traffic is very heavy, and Randy'spretty sure that he won't have any trouble finding a ride. Hewalks along the sidewalk, hoping to see someone he recognizes.A late model Che.y soon pulls up beside him. Its driver, GaryDunn, is a math teacher at Central High. Randy doesn't knowhim very well; he's seen him in the hall once or twice."Do you want a lift?""Yeah, thanks, Mr. Dunn. I missed my bus. "."Well, hop in; it's getting late."They talk about football tile rest of the way to school, and Mr.Dunn let. Randy off at th6 corner and goes to find a parkingplace.6
IRandy's school sits in the midrle ofone of those neighborhoods balancedon every corner by a gang of thugswhose sole purpose in life is to hassleanyone younger and less protectedthan they are. Unfortunately, Randyfits into this category.7
Already, Randy can sense that there's going to be trouble. Hiswalk to school becomes even more hurried when he realizesthat he's being followed. One of the guys behind him makes aquick move and muscles him over with a poke and a jeering,"Excuse me." His two cohorts follow suit until Randy issurrounded. Randy can usually hold his own on a one-to-onebasis, but three adversaries are a little more than he bargainedfor. He considers trying out the kung-fu he's been practicing infront of the mirror but then realizes that this is for real.Instead, he chickens out."Look, I don't even know you guys. What do you want?""Nothing, just trying to get by, that's all.""Well then, after you," he gestures gallantly, feeling like a foolbut hoping they'll think it's funny.8
After the trio passes by, one of them pivots around and kicksRandy in the rear-end. The blow sends him flying across thesidewalk, and a large piece of his IALAC sign falls off.9
It lay on the sidewalk along with his scattered books andhomework assignments. The other boys all double over inhysterical laughter, and Randy almost wishes he'd taken aimon instead.He scoops up his belongings, including his Spanishassignments which one of the guys managed to step on. Randystarts off for school again and finally reaches the front steps.Upset by his humiliation and in an urgent race with the bell, hislegs stretch to reach three steps in a single bound. Not quitesuperman, he grimaces with pain as he smashes his shinagainst the sharp edge of the top step. The front door seemsvery far away, and he sits down on the step and rubs his soreleg. By sitting there, he's caused a minor traffic jam. Other lastminute arrivals sidestep him as they rush to make it tohomeroom before the late bell rings.So far, Randy's day has seen far from perfect. As a matter offact, since the early morning, one bad thing has followedanother, snowballing until Randy seems about to be buried inan avalanche of problems.10
Randy follows the crowd into school and limps over to hislocker. 29-34-14the locker clicks openand wouldn't youknow it, his locker partner Greg's football gear and books andnotebooks, and gym shoes and old sandwiches that werejammed into the top shelf come tumbling down in a barrage tothe floor.Randy scoops them up and jams them right back intothe locker. Randy knows he's going to be late, and he doesn'teven have to check his watch because the late bell clangs righton schedule. To make matters worse, his homeroom is at theother end of the building, right past the principal's office. Bythe way, the principal prides himself on the fact that the door isalways open to allow easy access to any student who has aproblem or just wants to chat. Unfortunately, the open officealso serves as an unparalleled look-out point for students whoare in the halls when they should be in class.11
Randy dashes to his homeroom, just missing a run in with Dr.Shepherd who is too engrossed in a conversation with thestudent council president to notice Randy's stealthy speed.Having passed this gauntlet, Randy breathes a sigh of reliefand quietly opens the door to room 107, hoping his lateentrance goes unnoticed."Now, do you all understand that tomorrow classes will be onthe B schedule and lunch will be on the A schedule, so we'llhave time for the assembly at 2:30?" Mrs. Monroe, thehomeroom teacher, asks the class as Randy tiptoes to his seat.The class nods in unison, and she begins to take the roll. Shegoes quickly through the list, and after Randy hears himselfshout, "Here," he sees her change from a black ballpoint to ared felt tip pen that she uses to indicate who's come in late.Randy was hoping that she'd let it go this time. The rest ofhomeroom proves to be uneventful, and Randy leaves for hissocial studies class, thinking that things just have to get better.Social studies with Mr. Carter is Randy's favorite class eventhough Mr. Carter is a stickler for details and always expectsthe "right" answer. Randy sees this as a challenge, and he'sespecially confident today because he did his homework lastmight and missed only one of the questions that the teacherassigned.Since the first question is an easy one, Randy and at leastfifteen others wave their hands in the air, trying to escapegetting stuck with one of the harder ones that will undoubtedlycome later in the period. Larry Jones answers the easy questionin a zip, and Mr. Carter goes on to the next one. Randy raiseshis hand to answer four different questions, and each time theteacher skips over him.12
Mr. Carter finally comes to the onequestion that Randy couldn't answer last night. Randycrouches down in his seat, trying to make himself invisible.0*04)eb;f-fOellOeak---.440"Randy?" Mr. Carter looks at him expectantly. Randy staresright back."Do you know the answer?" Mr. Carter prods."No, sir.""It seems to me, young man, that you might do yourself a favorand finish your assignment once in a while."Randy sulks the rest of the period. "Just my luck! Why does italways happen to me?" he thinks to himself on the way to hisnext class.13ifigeathaftef ,,,
After math, comes science, which is not at all Randy's favoritesubject. The science teacher, Mr. Anderson, fancies himself thementor of the next Albert Einstein. Unfortunately, at least forRandy, Mr. Anderson is bent on finding him right here inCentral High. One of Mr. Anderson's standard operatingprocedures is to scat the most scientifically inclined, thosedestined to become physicians, dentists, chemists, or perhaps,graduate Ph.D.'s in physics, at the front of the class, so theyhave the best vantage point for all demonstrations andexperiments. "After all, they are the most deserving ones, aren'tthey?" he justifies his actions to himself and to anyone whoinquires. Randy, as you already may have guessed, sits nearthe back of the room. He's never said anything about it, but itdoes sometimes make him feel like an outsider. Mr. Anderson'sprevious impatience with some of Randy's questions hasconvinced him to be silent and hope for the best. The onlyreally good thing about science is that lunch follows.14
For many students, lunch is the highpoint of the day. Quiteoften, the social life of the school revolves around the hour ortwo that the cafeteria is open for business. Randy eats duringthe same period as Lisa Matthews. More boys than Randy havenoticed Lisa. She's one of the most popular girls in her class,and she's seldom out of Randy's mind. He'd do just aboutanything to get her to notice him. Randy gets in line, and justas he moves to the serving area, she passes by him. Randyperks up, smiles, and half-waves at her, but she just gives hima cold stare and passes like an iceberg. That's not unusualshe's been doing it for weeks. You'd think he'd wise up by now,wouldn't you? Well, at least they're serving his favorite mealtodaycheeseburgers, potato chips, and apple pie, The daylooks brighter already.Randy takes one of each of his favorites and two cartons ofmilk. He pays for his lunch and heads for the silverware section.He gets within three feet of the knives and forks when someonebumps his elbow.15
tifHis tray flies out of his hand, and its contents explode acrossthe cafeteria floor. Half the room stands up to shout, applaud,and whistle. Randy is just too embarrassed to look anybody inthe face.111!.--,,"Mt.ef*9164,,,,.
After cleaning up the mess, he gets back in !ine, buys hissecond lunch, though he's lost his appetite. and manages topick up his silverware without causing a scene. He walkscarefully to the cafeteria tables. On the way. he spots Lisaagain. He gives her a sheepish grin and says. "Hello." She turnsto her two friends, and all three giggle as he walks away.Thoroughly embarrassed and slightly flustered again, hedecides to find a seat very quickly before something elsehappens. He chooses a table nearby.He doesn't know any of the guys at the table, and theirunfriendly looks are hardly inviting. The boy closest to Randyasks him to move, because the seat is saved for a friendwhich Randy is not, his tone implies.As Randy gets up, he spots his locker partner Greg waving tohim from across the room. Randy walks over to the table whereGreg is and sits down, relieved that he can finally eat his lunchin peace. Greg avoids talking about Randy's mishap andinstead encourages him to go out for football."You're big enough and they always need more guys. Whydon't you give it a try?"His confidence somewhat restored, Randy goes to English classand then on to shop.After he spends the first 20 minutes just watching, Randy'spartner finally lets him do some cutting on their project, butRandy's grip loosens, and he breaks the blade on the saw."You idiot!' Can't you do anything right? You've ruined it,"Randy's partner shouts at him and pushes him out of the way.Randy readies to take a swing, but the sound of the bell cutsshort his revenge, and he dashes off to Spanish class, stillfuming.Randy's Spanish teacher, Mrs. Nash, requires that allhomework assignments be handed in at the beginning of theperiod. She scrutinizes each one, admonishing anyone whohands in an incomplete or poorly executed assignment.17
Randy takes out the rumpled Spanish assignment from hisnotebook. There's a dirty footprint stamped on the tatteredpaper, a reminder of this morning's skirmish. Hesitatingly, hepasses it up the aisle to the teacher. After all, a sloppyassignment is better than no assignment, he reasons. It doesn'ttake long for Mrs. Nash to discover Randy's messy homework."i.,Siiior Patterson, que es esto?" she asks, holding up thepaper between her thumb and index finger as though it werecontaminated. She doesn't wait for an answer and abruptlytosses it back to him. She ignores him the rest of the period,and Randy is relieved when the bell rings so he can go on togym.18
Randy heads for the football field. He sees Mr. Layton, thefootball coach and gym teacher, already out in the field.Mustering up all the courage he has, Randy walks over to him."Mr. Layton, after gym, I'd like to try out for the team.""You've got to be kidding! I don't have enough uniforms forthe guys who've already tried out. Sorry, kid, but you shouldhave talked to me yesterday."The coach turns to some of the other boys standing around."Okay, guys, let's get going. Mark, Joe, you're the captainstoday. Get your teams lined up."Feeling pretty dejected, Randy joins the rest of the class. He'snever really felt comfortable standing around waiting to getcalled. He tries to act nonchalant as the others join the ranks ofa team. Finally, one of the captains, who has little sensitivity,says, "Randy, you be on my team. We need a backup for thewaterboy." Some of the guys laugh, and Randy sulks away tothe bench. It's his last class of the day, and he'll get to go homesoon. He sits there, convinced that he'll get to play only if oneof the other guys gets winded or hurt. Fine way to run a gymclass, he thinks to himself.19
After gym, Randy heads for home. He wears the key to thefront door on a rawhide string around his neck. He lets himselfinto the house and listens for his morn, but the place seems abit more quiet than usual. Then he remembers that onMondays his mom works at the drugstore and usually doesn'tget home before five. That will give him some time to watchtelevision before the rest of the family gets home.Just as he turns on the TV, he hears the front door slam.Robin apparently had a fight with her friend Jeanne andcame straight home from school. So much for a little peace andquiet before dinner.Robin walks into the living room, marches over to the TV,changes the channel, and perches herself in front of the set.Randy jumps up from the sofa, determined to really give it toher. She sees him coming and makes a mad dash for the stairsand locks herself in the bathroom. Well, at least he has the TVto himself again.A few minutes later, he hears the front door open and close."Anybody home?" his dad calls through the hallway. He comesinto the living room."Randy, if I've told you once, I've told you a hundred times,I don't want you watching so much TV. Sometimes I thinkyou'd watch the test patterns if I'd let you. You ought to beoutside, playing some ball, like I used to when I was a kid.""Dad, will you get off my back?""Don't get smart with me, young man! Where's your sister?""I don't know."His dad turns off the set."Well, if you don't want to play ball or something, why don'tyou clean up your room like I've been asking you for the pastweek or start your homework and get those grades up wherethey're suppose to be. You know you can't get into college orget a decent job unless you know something. What the heck isgoing to happen to you, anyway? Remember, I'm only sayingthis for your own good."20
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His dad leaves the room, and. Randy sits on the sofa, trying todecide what to do next. Before long, he's looking up LisaMatthews' number in the phone book. Below the number he'swritten on the notepad by the phone, he scribbles:22
Excited by the possibility of actually having a date with Lisa.Randy anxiously dials her number. The front door opens an
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