The Red Pill Handbook

The Basics ExplainedBy SoftHarem.Article link.Well folks, as 2013 wraps up this has been a helluva ride. Our little experimentthat /u/pk atheist put together has grown to 28,000 members in a little over a yearwith no sign of slowing down, and easily one of the most active subs on all ofReddit for its size. Most of us had nowhere to go. We knew the popular socialnarrative regarding dating was horseshit, but every time we said anything about itwe were met with vitriol and shaming tactics trying to keep us in line like goodlittle drones. A few of us got ourselves banned from every major gender based suband decided enough was enough. Enter /r/TheRedPillWhile you're all nursing hangovers I wanted to take a minute to discuss ourphilosophy as a whole, and the direction we want to take for 2014. Just as Reddit isthe "front page of the internet" /r/TheRedPill has become a major "front page ofthe manosphere" We are now a major hub for all manosphere related activity.Every single prominent blogger is linked here, browses here, and has done anAMA. We have an extremely active community and it is only going to get bigger.As that happens the mod staff refuses to let our signal weaken. We will not haveour message softened by anyone.What is The Red Pill?A loose and highly debated collection of frameworks that describe sexualdynamics between men and women. In short, it is purely information. What eachperson decides to do with this information is up to them. Remember, sexualstrategy is amoral. You decide what you want to do and how you want to go aboutThe Red Pill Handbook 10

doing it. You are responsible for your overall happiness, and all consequences ofyour actions. We're here to provide and discuss the framework.What is a sexual strategy?Simply put, it is being honest with yourself about what you want from theopposite sex and putting together a realistic plan to go after it. For our purposesthis is broken down into three main groups: MGTOW, Plate spinning, andGirlfriend game.MGTOWTaken from: http://www.mgtow.com/ Level 1: Situational awareness. This level includes men who are aware ofthe realities that face them in society, and yet deem the risks acceptable tohave a go at playing the game.Level 2: Rejection of long-term relationships. Man who rejects all form oflong-term personal relationships with women, including but not limited tomarriage, cohabitation of any sort which might be classified as common-lawmarriage, picking up for a single mother's children, or any action whichmight be used in court to turn him into her legal indentured servant.Level 3: Rejection of short-term relationships. Man who rejects all form ofpersonal relationships with women, including dating, one-night stands,friendships, etc. Any contact with unfamiliar women is kept strictlyprofessional and at a minimum.Level 4: Economic disengagement. Man who refuses to produce more thanis strictly necessary for his individual survival. He will limit actions that arepunished by taxation without jeopardizing his way of life and acceptablestandard of living.Obviously Level 1 is great, and something we here at TRP agree with, butThe Red Pill Handbook 11

everything after that is debatable. Level 2 does not include relationships, which area valid sexual strategy, and Level 3 does not include Plates, also a valid sexualstrategy. If you can find happiness within this framework, knock yourself out, butthe meat of TRP will be focusing on Plates/Girlfriend game. Being the pragmaticbunch we are at TRP I honestly want to thank all of you MGTOW out there. Byopting out of dating and society altogether you help drive down the value of pussyby no longer validating women, and you're less competition for those of us whopursue one of the other two strategies. Blaze a trail, gentlemen.Plate spinningOtherwise known as a "Soft Harem" and a personal favorite of mine. This isbasically "dating" multiple women at once without commitment. Most of us herewill tell you flat out that honesty is the best policy. Let the women know you arenot available for exclusivity now, or at any point in the future. TRP does notcondone cheating or lying to women. If you tell a woman you're exclusive and thenfuck around on her I have no problem calling you a shithead. Don't do that, itcreates feminists and other terrible types of women.http://therationalmale.com/?s plateStart at "Plate Theory" and work your way up. This is a gold mine for how tospin up your own Soft Harem. You'll have to master game and have your framelocked up real tight because this is trial by fire. Always entertaining, ratherexhausting, but if you play it just right you can find short and sometimes long termhappiness.Girlfriend gameNot exactly something we're known for, but I think there is enough demand thatit is relevant. Women worth giving your commitment to are rare. So rare in fact wecall them Unicorns, and you can consider this TRP on hard mode. MaintainingThe Red Pill Handbook 12

attraction and frame for one night isn't that hard once you've had some success andinternalized game. Maintaining it throughout the course of a long term relationshipis another beast altogether. This is content we haven't discussed much in the past sowe are looking to the community to drive it. If it is something you're interested instart making theory posts. Mate selection, maintaining frame, Captain/First Matedynamics, etc. We aim to be the premiere hub for all things RP related, andignoring relationships because they aren't "True RP" is ignorant. Which leads usinto the next section.Straw Red PillThis is when RP theories become caricatures of themselves. "Bitter friendzonedneckbeard MGTOW" or "Sociopath Patrick Bateman Dark Triad alpha bro" Now,normally I'd quote GoT "Lions, sheep, etc." but we need to avoid doing this toourselves regardless of what outsiders think. The RP community is small, and weseem to only want to divide ourselves further over which sexual strategy is the"best." Personally, I think this is fucking dumb. The career players call the guyswho want a girlfriend "still beta," while the MGTOW call the players "slaves topussy." Its all bullshit and it needs to stop. Your strategy is your own to decide, andthat doesn't make it objectively better than any of the others. Here in TRP ourcommunity is built of ALL THREE sexual strategies. If you don't want to supportall three then head on over to the Roosh, MMSL, or MGTOW forums so you canjoin in on the masturbatory nonsense.RPS also had a good point about Alpha and Beta. Guys, listen, they aren'tbinary, they are spectrums, and all of us have r52pe/a note on real alphas/"Occasionally I see conversations regarding "real alpha" comparing two usersin a similar context to:"You're not a real alpha. A real alpha does this."The Red Pill Handbook 13

"I am a real alpha. I do this!""This board has been invaded by betas!"Just wanted to make a note that this is basically stupid and for fucks sake dropthat shit.Stop labelling each other alphas and betas, they're terms we use to classifyparticular behaviors and help demonstrate good versus bad behavior. Nobody isintrinsically an "alpha," some people just have more alpha traits than others. Stickto constructive criticism and drop the stupid out-alpha talk. It's not seddit folks, thisconversation has become a caricature of itself.If somebody is making stupid mistakes, correct them, but don't get into a stupidfight about who's alpha and who isn't.Furthermore, of course there are people with beta tendencies here. How thefuck do you expect them to learn?And a note to people who are new here or have overwhelmingly beta traits anddon't get it: lurk a bit. Pay special attention to Endorsed Contributors. If you keepgiving terrible advice when you don't know jack shit, I might just make a new userflair: Continuous Blue Balls or something."2014It will be business as usual except on a bigger scale. You will see a few newadditions to the moderator staff in the very near future, as well as more emphasison specific sexual strategy discussion. We're big enough and have enoughmoderation that the pathetic radfem trolls do not even make a dent anymore. RPShas been kind enough to start working on "Plate" and "Girlfriend/LTR game" linkflair to help categorize the new content.The Red Pill Handbook 14

We're the boggieman of Reddit, and I like that infamy, but when new peopleshow up and actually stay for a minute I want us to be the authority on all thingsrelated to sexual strategy. Help us really flesh out these concepts and maintain ourposition as a major hub of the manosphere.Do work.The Red Pill Handbook 15

Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Come and FeedBy IllimitableMan.Article link.This post contains a lot of generalisations which embody fundamental beliefs ofthe Red Pill philosophy, this list is extensive but not exhaustive. These are bulletpoints and thus there is not a case study for every point made and there is notnecessarily an explanation given with each bullet point. This is because thisinformation has been designed to be snappy and easy to absorb, not an academicdissertation on each belief and concept shared. Think of it as something of a partialcodification of many different RP beliefs. Feminists claim they want equality but what they really want is powerwithout responsibility. They desire both male and female privilegeconsolidated into one, thus upsetting the gender balance. They want theprivileges of being women (privilege such as being economically providedfor, getting opportunities based on their beauty and protection from physicalharm by others) as well as male privilege (authority, respect for having acareer, to not be judged so harshly based on appearance etc) which is neitherpragmatic nor realistic, it ignores the biological basis for how the gendersperceive each other in the ignorance that "everything is a social construct!"and we are mostly "the same" when quite evidently this is not the case.Women are irrational and inconsistent, they have a capacity for logic but it isnot their modus operandi, that is to say that they must exert effort to belogical as it is not their factory setting. A logical woman is easily baited intobecoming emotional; women are easy to compromise. Their decisions arebased on their current emotional state rather than the abstraction of logic. It'sthis proclivity to change so quickly which causes them to act inconsistentlyand in contradiction.The Red Pill Handbook 16

Women are Machiavellian in nature, this means they are comparativelyproficient at being manipulative versus the typical male. The evolutionarytheoretical basis for this is due to smaller size and inferior musculaturewomen had to learn to use men as tools rather than directly oppose them in aphysical conflict (as they would undoubtedly lose in all but very fewscenarios) this makes the pronunciation of their strength a propensity to bementally violent rather than to be physically violent. Physical violence isoutlawed whereas mental abuse is not, this allows women to get their waywithout being held accountable by a system of law, the law does not legislateinterpersonal morality to this extent. Where a man's instinct is to hit, awoman's is to do a big shit in your mind instead.Race does not matter if you are rich. A lot of you are small-minded and stuckon the superficial, white-black-arab-indian-asian whatever, you have acertain perception of the world based upon your culture, perhaps where youlive the white man is god, but know all racial barriers are overcome bypower, money is power, if you're a 5' asian with a 2 inch dick that girls laughat a 7 digit bank balance is sure to offset that. Focus less on your race andmore on your success, your insecurities will get you no where. The realsegregation is between rich and poor and that is even more true when itcomes down to women, never forget that. Rich vs. poor is the only thing thatmatters in this world, white vs black, west coast vs east coast, all these other"beefs" are a minor, they are all symptoms of wealth inequality, the bottomline is wealth. Rich vs poor motherfuckers.Women are hypergamous they feel entitled to a superior mate. You have tobe richer than her or at least equally rich, more educated than her or at leastequally educated. You need to be better looking than her or at least equallooking, you need to be more popular than she is or at least equally popular.You can offset one area (LMS - looks, money, status) with another, but ifyou're lower in at least 2 areas just forget it.Buying into the last point, this is why 20% of guys are fucking 80% of thechicks, women date up, men date down and yes this has created rising socialinequality since women entered the professions.If a woman thinks she is better than you she can't respect you, if she can'trespect you she can't love you. Women love men differently to the way menThe Red Pill Handbook 17

love women. Woman's love is based on adoration, adoration is aconcentrated amount of respect. Respect is derived from power. Be powerfulif you want to be loved, or you will never be loved. You will be held incontempt for being weak.Women rely on men to be emotionally stoic, we often call this "holdingframe" you have to be mentally strong so she can lean on you, she finds thatattractive. You cannot lean on her, there is a double standard, if you lean onher the relationship will fall apart, she will not be able to handle yourproblems and she will no longer find you attractive. You are a man. Youhave to be better than her, which means to be stronger than she is. This iswhy women get to be emotional and we have to be non-reactive, we arestrong and ignore our emotions so they can indulge in their emotions andenjoy the ride. They find it far more difficult to be logical than we do andthus it is our burden to be the reasonable ones.Always set boundaries, with everyone. Do not be a pushover. This isprobably the most important bullet-point here.Buying into the last point women have little sympathy for weak men, despitethe fairer sex bullshit you may be accustomed to hearing a man is far morelikely to assist a weak man financially or emotionally than a woman is.Women are more selfish than men are in matters of money and love. Man'slove is expected to be sacrificial, woman's isn't.Women love pragmatically and have no capacity to love unconditionally forromantic partners, only their children. Men can love women unconditionally.There is a hierarchy of love: Men Women Children.Women have a pronounced gender group bias which means they typically defacto side with other women in a conflict regardless of logic or argument,women are herd like and stick together closely, they form cartels and use thepower of the group to hen peck/destroy enemies.Women have a sexual plurality, if you are a nice guy with money you arehusband material that can nail her after 12 dates and she's had so manyglasses of wine she forgets how on a primal level you're not that attractive,just cute. If you are an asshole with nice muscles you're the guy who gets tonail her after 2 hours of meeting. We call this sexual plurality in ratherrhythmic slang: "alpha fucks, beta bucks."The Red Pill Handbook 18

Women do not care about male weakness and neither does society, if you areweak, depressed, small, poor, uneducated, unconfident, not powerful thennobody cares. People only care about you when you're powerful or a prettywoman. You have to pull yourself up by the bootstraps because nobodygives a fuck about you. Society will always have a safety net for women,white knights will charge in, the state will provide and etc, as a man youhave no such luxury, your propensity and ability to gain power is muchhigher than a woman's but your ability to hit rock bottom is far morepronounced too. As men we are more extreme than women. Women aretypically average and don't move much either side of the bell curve, as menwe are either highly successful geniuses of repute that feminists can butscoff and be jealous of, the poster boys for their esteemed patriarchy, or theignored voiceless poverty stricken peasant class that nobody gives a flyingfuck about.The law prioritises female safety and well-being over logic, honour andjustice. Family law has been corrupted and is now controlled by feministideological dogma. The constitutions equitable maxims are rewritten bymodern statutes, Rollo Tomassi of Rational Male did a very relevant articleon this topic here: et-ofbooks/Western females (typically anglosphere and western/northern Europe) areself-entitled and come from a psychological position of thinking they'rebetter than you are. They believe that shit despite their numerous insecuritiesbecause they have been raised to view men as instruments for their desires,they have been told they must be impressed, that a man must wine and dineher and ultimately the onus is on him to win her heart, she will obsess overher relationship status frantically and doll herself up but ultimately her partis entirely passive. She comes from a position of superiority and illogicallybelieves she is superior to all but the most high value of men. Part of TheRed Pill is realising her capacity for brilliance is lower than yours, whichbrings me on to the next point.Women need men more than men need women. Men generally want sex andperhaps a family so they have a genetic lineage to leave their worldly goodsand knowledge to once they die (so they may live on through their offspring)The Red Pill Handbook 19

however women need men for their logical minds and stoic consistency, tomake her emotionally stabilised "being the rock in her storm", and also needa partner just to "feel complete." Just look at single mother households andall the older women who are single, they are miserable. These womenNEED a man to be happy, men DO NOT need women to be happy, menneed SEX to be happy. A bachelor is a not an unhappy guy, a bachelorette is.Women are depreciating assets, their major asset and unique selling point istheir sexual beauty and fertility. Most of them squander their best years on"riding the cock carousel" which means fucking lots of different guys innightclubs, having flings, being generally irresponsible and riding throughlife on easy mode getting ahead for no real talent, but because she's prettyand can give head. Women are born, their ability to conceive children iswhat makes them women.Men are not born they are created. Poverty, difficulty, heartache, oppression,pain - these are the things that make men out of boys. This is why you cameto TRP. This is why boys come back from the military as men. Conflict andpain is what forges the masculine mindset, men cannot grow without conflictand learning from their mistakes, men need to apply their logical minds toproblems which arise, elevate, and transcend their previous selves to becomemore powerful. Men are never born, they are always bred in the bloodyfields of battle and war be it economic, mental or physical. A man is

The Red Pill Handbook 2 Table of Contents Introduction 5 - Introduction 6 - The Basics Explained 10 - Red Pill Antibiotic Nuke, Come and Feed 16 - What Is The Red Pill And Why Does It Exist? 23 - An Evolutionary Perspective on The Red Pill 25 A Comprehensive Guide to The Red Pill 26 - All-in-One Red Pill 101 27 - 1. Introduction 28 - 2.