THE ART OF SMALL TALK - Professional Development
THE ART OF SMALL TALKAnne Mancl, MSVerve Learning Services111 N. Prairie St.Stoughton, WI 53589608.719.9763vervelearning@sbcglobal.net
Agenda Small Talk DefinedSTAMER QuizSmall Talk StackENGAGE your NonverbalsSeven Deadly SinsCheat SheetSmall talk means having a little loose change inyour pocket. Like quarters at a soda machine,dimes at a gum dispenser, or a few nickels at a tollbooth, it’ll come in handy when you least expectit. When it comes to small talk, know when tojiggle it, spend it, or save it. Adapted from Communicate with Confidence
THE ART OF SMALL TALK(STAMER) QuizSmall Talk Apprehension Measure in Everyday Relationships1.I find it difficult to approach someoneI don't know and introduce myself ina social situation.EXTREMELY characteristic of me.VERY characteristic of me.MODERATELY characteristic of me.SLIGHTLY characteristic of me.5. I never know what to say whenmaking small talk.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of me.2. I have difficulty entering into anon-going conversation.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of me6. Most people I observe are better atmaking small talk than I am.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of me3. I have difficulty rememberingsomeone's name after beingintroduced.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of me7. My mind goes blank when someoneasks me a question during aconversation.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of me3EXTREMELY characteristic of meEXTREMELY characteristic of mePage4. I experience such symptoms suchas a racing heart and sweaty palmswhen making small talk.8. My mouth becomes dry when I haveto make small talk.
THE ART OF SMALL TALK9. I have difficulty making small talkone-on-one with members of theopposite sex.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of me12. I have difficulty making small talkwith individuals in position of authority.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of me10. Most people would not beinterested in what I have to say whenmaking small talk with me.13. I don't feel I have much to say whenmaking small talk.EXTREMELY characteristic of meEXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of me11. I feel uncomfortable in socialsituations where I might have to makesmall talk with many people I don'tknow.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of me14. I worry about being evaluatednegatively by others for what I saywhile making small talk.EXTREMELY characteristic of meVERY characteristic of meMODERATELY characteristic of meSLIGHTLY characteristic of meNOT AT ALL characteristic of mePage4NOT AT ALL characteristic of me
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THE ART OF SMALL TALKEngage FormulaEThe Seven Deadly“Sins” of Small TalkN1.GAG2.3.4.5.6.67.PageE
THE ART OF SMALL TALKAdditional SMALL TALK “Sins” Not preparing several topics that you're willing to bring up and discuss. Displaying closed body language that says, "I'm not interested in talking toyou." Waiting for others to approach you. Not introducing yourself with a tag line. Not adding on "free information" when asked a yes/no or short-answerquestion. Asking several "closed-ended" questions instead of a few "open-ended" ones. Asking questions that are too personal, too early on. Arguing over minor details - even if you're certain you're right. Abruptly ending the conversation after a negative comment or a moment ofsilence.“Everybody wants to feel like a somebody.People love to be appreciated, applauded andcomplimented it is a basic drive for all of us; it’sonly natural for people to respond to this there is ararity of applause and compliments in our everydaylives, not because we don’t deserve it, but becausenobody dishes them out.”Page7Giblin, 2005
THE ART OF SMALL TALKSMALL TALK CHEAT SHEET Write a self-introduction, and practice it ahead of time. Keep up with the news—local, national, and sports—so you know what'sgoing on in the world. It will give you more to talk about. Review the Small Talk Stack. Don't ask questions hoping that the other person will carry the conversation. Truly listen to what the other person is saying instead of planning what you aregoing to say next. Establish a comfortable connection with the other person by using ENGAGE. Contribute anecdotes that relate to the interests of the people you arechatting with. Don't redirect the spotlight to you. Stay in the moment, and talk about the event you are attending—the venue,the food, traffic, how you know the host, etc. Remember, most people are nice and really would like to talk to you.“When you listen to people, you areallowing them to hear their favoritespeaker the more listening you do;the better you will be liked”Les Giblin, “People Smart”, 2005PageCarducci, B. J. (1999). The pocket guide to making successful small talk: How to talk to anyone anytimeanywhere about anything. Pocket Guide Publishing, New Albany, IN.Fine, D. (2004). The fine art of small talk. Small talk publishers, Englewood, CO.Gabor, D. (2006) How to start a conversation and make friends. Simon & Schuster, NY.Giblin, L. (2006). How to be people smart. Embassy Books, St. Petersburg, FL.Honeychurch, C. (2003).Talk to me. New Harbinger Publications Inc., Oakland, CA.Martinet, J. (2006) The art of mingling: easy proven techniques for mastering any room. St. Martin’ Griffin.8Resources
THE ART OF SMALL TALK Page 8 SMALL TALK CHEAT SHEET Write a self-introduction, and practice it ahead of time. Keep up with the news—local, national, and sports—so you know what's going on in the world. It will give you more to talk about. Review the Small Talk Stack.File Size: 233KBPage Count: 8
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