Getting Started With NoFap
Getting Started with NoFapHow to use the NoFap platform toreach your goals Quit porn through the “rebooting” process Conquer out-of-control sexual behaviors Pursue beneficial habits Live your ideal sexual lifestyle Chase your dreams
Getting Started with NoFap IntroductionHello and welcome to NoFap!What is NoFap?NoFap is a comprehensive sexual health platform, empowering people to express their sexualities freefrom compulsive behaviors.The NoFap platform provides many resources that will help you reach your goals: Information on how using porn can impact on your brain, your relationships, and your life. Howto moderate sexual behaviors that you deem to be problematic, express your sexuality healthily,and build healthy habits Programs and challenges designed to help you set goals and keep you accountable Guidance to help you use your sexuality in aWhat is a Rebooter?fulfilling, sex-positive way, in accordance with“Rebooters” are what we callyour values and sexual goalsthose who voluntarily abstain Applications to help you document yourfrom pornography - and oftenprogress and stay motivated to reach your goalsother sexual behaviors too. They A helpful, supportive community of like-mindedmight use the NoFap platform, ormight never even have heard of uspeers and experts who are rooting for youbefore. Rebooters can be found all over theNoFap is a sex-positive, secular, and science-basedworld.organization. We don’t rely on moral or religiousAbstaining from porn, masturbation, orprinciples to support our arguments, preferring to use thesometimes even orgasm altogether (evenlatest scientific research, statistics, and the experiencesduring sex!), is called “rebooting,” as inof our users to illuminate the issue.“rebooting” a smartphone or computerHowever, NoFap hosts an inclusive community,welcoming members of all religious and spiritualpersuasions, or lack thereof. While the majority of ourusers do not identify as religious, we are happy to hostlarge numbers of users from every major religion.2 www.NoFap.com/getting-started“back to default factory settings.” Abstainingtemporarily is what we have discovered to bethe most effective tool that we have to quitporn sustainably, curb compulsive sexualbehaviors, and ultimately live a better lifewith happier relationships.Copyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap Welcome to Getting Started!This guide will provide you with the basics on: How Internet porn can change people’s brains and behaviors How the “rebooting” process can reverse the effects of pornaddiction and help you gain control over other compulsivesexual behaviorsWhat is aFapstronaut? How to identify if you have a sexual compulsion that’s negativelyimpacting your life Goal setting to help you get where you want to go What to expect while you reboot using the NoFap platform How to successfully make it through the most difficult parts ofyour reboot Why connection to others using the NoFap platform is helpfuland important Ways that your life can improve when you have successfullycompleted your rebootSUBSCRIBENOW“Fapstronaut” isa nickname givento NoFap’s userswho are activelyrebooting.As you’ve signed up,you can now proudly callyourself a new Fapstonaut.Female users of the NoFapplatform sometimes usethe term “Femstronaut,” butFapstronaut is a genderneutral term - every userof NoFap can be called aFapstronaut!Subscribe to NoFap News for more helpand guidance on your journey!We take your privacy very seriously. We will never shareyour information with others, for any reason.3 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap What is going on with my brain?As a new NoFap user, you have probably realized that porn andexcessive or compulsive sexual behaviors can have an extremelynegative impact on people’s lives. But you might wonder why. So howdoes an addiction to Internet porn develop? And, If you are havingproblems related to your porn use, how can you fix it?What is porn addiction?Porn addiction is a phenomenon of the brain. It is marked by useof pornography that proves difficult to stop despite negativeconsequences, and that often worsens over time. There are threecommon signs of porn addiction:Because addictionis complex, thescience of addictionis complex too. Buta popular simplifiedversion of thecharacteristics ofaddiction is the FourCs: an addict will suffer from aCompulsion to use porn, willContinue to use porn despitenegative effects on their life,will be unable to Control theiruse, and will Crave porn whenthey are not using it. An increase in porn use over time. You might go from lookingat porn once a week to many times a day. An increase in the intensity of the porn used. For example,porn genres that used to disgust you may become the onlything you can get off to. An inability to stop using pornography despite negative consequences. You might skipimportant obligations to look at porn, or use porn during inappropriate times or in inappropriatesituations. You might experience sexual dysfunctions or relationship problems. Many peoplecontinue to use porn despite these problems, and even after deciding that they should quit orregulate their consumption.4 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap Here are some effects of excessive porn consumption that NoFap’susers have reported:AnxietyDepressionInability to Delay s of LibidoAttentionalBias to PornCuesBrain Fog DecreasedInterest in(inability to orgasmduring partnered sex)TimeWastingSexualObjectificationof OthersFatigueShameReal asmsLack ofMotivationEscalation to MoreExtreme Genres of Porn DelayedDeath Grip EjaculationMasturbation Relationship ProblemsLack of Productivity LowSelfEsteemLess PleasurableDesensitizationSocialAnxietyIncentive Sensitization5 yIsolationPoor Working MemoryInability toDelay GratitudeCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap As you can see, some of these symptoms are more measureable than others. For example, it’s difficult todirectly tie a feeling of general fatigue to a porn addiction. And some are easy to spot: many men cometo our website when they can no longer get an erection for sex or maintain it during intercourse. Reportsfrom many thousands of people around the world link these symptoms to heavy porn use. By removingone variable from their lives - pornography - these same people report that these symptoms are usuallyreduced or reversed.This list of reported negative symptoms is not exhaustive.And people also report all kinds of unexpected and unique positive changes after leaving porn in thepast.The best way to find out if and how your sexual habits are affecting your life is to abstain from themtemporarily. Some people join our platform and participate in a reboot out of curiosity, only to discoverthat their lives and relationships have greatly benefited from quitting porn.You do not have to meet the criteria for addiction to pornography toexperience negative effects from using it.Some people - and these cases seem to be rare - who have problems related to their porn usesay they are able to easily stop. Such people would not be technically defined as being addictedto pornography. If you are experiencing negative consequences of your porn use and are able toeasily stop, first of all thank your lucky stars, and then consider if a period of abstinence would begood for you.6 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap How Porn Addiction WorksThe brain’s reward system is an important factor in all addictions, including porn addiction. Thiscluster of neural structures helps us to learn from our environment by reinforcing behavioralresponses to certain stimuli. These structures include circuits of neural pathways that have evolvedto fire up when we encounter things that benefit us, subsequently encouraging us to seek out moreof them.These pathways release neurotransmitters like dopamine and endorphin when we encounter beneficialstimuli. This conditions us to repeat the experience. This process is fundamental to how we learn tosurvive and thrive in our environment.Our reward system is naturally wired to reward us for having sex. Unfortunately the rewardsystem, unlike our more-evolved conscious brain, seems unable to distinguish between masturbatingto Internet pornography and having sex with a partner. The rational part of the brain and the rewardsystem are out of sync: when you orgasm to porn, your reward system, in a sense, believes that youhave successfully passed your genes to a new generation.Porn can offer more sexual abundance, novelty, and stimulation than sex ever can. These three qualitiesmake porn especially alluring to your reward system, and soNeurotransmitters are chemicalsespecially addictive, because your reward center wants youthat the brain uses to sendto pass on your genes as often as possible.Porn is more abundant than natural sexThe concept and material reality of “abundance” is new tothe human species, which evolved under conditions ofscarcity; our brains and bodies have yet to adapt to thisnew environment.Many of our ancestors likely spent most of their time andeffort on survival. Food had to be hunted or gathered,and prepared; enemies and predators had to be avoided;protection from the elements had to be found. Our worldis very different today. The basics of survival - food, shelter,and safety - are now so convenient for many of us that weoften take them granted.7 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedsignals through the body. Theyrelay signals to nerve cellscalled neurons. When the brainencounters something that willenhance your survival or breedingprospects, like food or a receptivesexual partner, the reward system uses theneurotransmitter dopamine to motivate youto take the appropriate action, such as eatingor having sex. When you do the right thing,the brain rewards you by stimulating therelease of endorphins, the neurotransmitterassociated with feeling pleasure. Thisprocess also releases DeltaFosB (the higherthe levels of dopamine released, the moreDeltaFosB), a protein involved with learningand memory. This release of DeltaFosB allowsthe brain to link environmental cues to thepleasure response they initiated. Thus thebrain teaches you to seek out what is good foryou, and rewards you with pleasure when youact upon this impulse.Copyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap And our ancestors had to meet and interact with potential mates to experience sexual pleasure withanother person.Today, a pseudo-partnered orgasm is only a click away. We can see more aroused, naked human bodiesin an Internet porn binge session than most of our ancestors saw in their entire lifetimes.Our rational brains often know that too much of anything can be harmful - but our reward system doesn’t.Once the reward system has been “wired” to learn that something is good, that thing remains good, atleast until your rational brain intervenes. And if there is an abundance of that “good,” your reward systemwill encourage high consumption (binging) in case the “good” becomes scarce again in the future. Theidea of “all things in moderation,” is simply not a concept the reward system recognises. The rewardsystem always assumes that abundance will never last.Porn is more novel than natural sexAbundance isn’t enough for our brain when it comes to sexualstimulation; our brains seem to be built to crave sexual novelty too.That’s because our ancestors didn’t just try to have a lot of sex tomaximize their chances of passing on their genes; they soughtto have a lot of sex with a lot of different people, ensuring a widerspread of their genes, and making inbreeding less likely.This constant search for new sexual partners is nicely illustrated ina phenomenon behaviorists call the Coolidge Effect.8 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedThe Coolidge EffectThe name “The CoolidgeEffect” comes from a storyabout former US PresidentCalvin Coolidge. Allegedly,on a tour of a farm, thePresident’s wife wasimpressed with the sexual stamina of arooster. On being told the male chickenmated dozens of times a day, Mrs.Coolidge said, “Tell that to the Presidentwhen he comes by.” When Mr. Coolidgewas told, he asked if the rooster matedwith the same hen. “Oh, no, Mr. President,a different hen every time,” he was told,replying, “Tell that to Mrs. Coolidge.”Copyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap Experiments have found that many mammals of either gender - though the effect is more marked in males- often lose interest in sex with a familiar partner, show renewed sexual interest when presented with anew mate.For porn users, this means that the same actors and actresses, scenes, and styles of sex may eventuallyget boring. So they move on to new genres and performers, often in the same session. Users reportkeeping large numbers of windows and browser tabs open while they browse porn, always keeping theirlevels of sexual excitement up as their brains are flooded with pleasurable neurochemicals.And with modern high-speed Internet porn there is almost no end to the novelty a committed porn usercan find.Porn is more stimulating than natural sexPorn can be more stimulating than sex with a partner. Porn performers often have surgically or digitallyenhanced features, and they are filmed in fantastic and hyper-erotic situations that you are unlikely toencounter in real life.For example, porn camera angles often provide close-ups of genital insertion that would be impossible,or certainly uncomfortable, to see in real life. When we have sex with a partner we have one view, notporn’s multiple angles and close-ups of favorite body parts - body parts that are enhanced with cameratricks, lighting, makeup, and digital touch-ups.Furthermore, many genres of porn deliberately cause anxiety in viewers as stress can increase levelsof sexual excitement. Porn can do this by appearing to break taboos, or even the laws of physics andbiology, as animated porn can. The addition of anxiety to the porn mix is designed to provide a biggererotic hit than sex with a partner can.9 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap This means that modern porn can deliver a greater payloadof neurochemicals than partnered sex. It combines superstimulation, novelty, and a never ending supply. Our rewardsystem lights up and tells us to grab all we can, driving pornaddicts to crave more and more stimulation and novelty.Tolerance“Tolerance” is common to all addictions. Increasing toleranceis seen when an addict no longer gets the same pleasurefrom stimuli that used to do it for them. This happens becausethe brain has been flooded with abnormally high levels ofneurotransmitters for so long that it shuts down some ofthe neurotransmitter receptors to protect itself from overstimulation. This means that over time, people may feel lessand less pleasure from your stimuli of choice. This process iscalled desensitization. For porn addicts, this means they needincreasingly abundant, novel, and super-stimulating porn tocontinue to get off.Pornography can become soenticing to your reward systemthat your brain simply no longerpays much attention to realpotential partners and onlygets excited by pornography.This can lead to various sexualproblems, most notably porninduced erectile dysfunction, or PIED.At the root of PIED is the phenomenonof neuroplasticity. Neuroplasticity isthe ability of your brain to learn from itsenvironment, making changes in theactual structure of your brain to adapt tothe world you put it in. For a porn addict,this world might come to revolve aroundfrequent PMO sessions.A porn addict might escalate from 10 minutes watching to six or more hours a day. They might seek outnew performers, kinkier scenes, and can even develop fetishes or sexual obsessions that previouslywould have left them cold. Porn addicts may also look for even more extreme, fantastic, or strange porn toget the same neurochemical hit as feelings of anger, disgust, or anxiety can add extra arousal to the pornexperience for jaded users. Particularly upsetting for some users is an escalation into porn that they feeldoes not reflect their sexual orientation or doesn’t align with their values.The Internet porn scene today is perfectly set up to deliver on this demand for abundant, novel, andsuper-stimulating material, which has become the new norm. In time many heavy porn users find thatregular sex just doesn’t cut it for them anymore.Decreasing Quality of LifeA porn addict’s reward system often changes to perceive pornography as disproportionately attractivecompared to real-world sexual encounters. A human is naturally inclined to want to “mate” with as manyof these porn “partners” as possible. And to do that, it might sacrifice other things to this overridinggoal. You may start to feel tired, anxious, depressed, and uninterested in sex. You may find it hard toconcentrate, or to motivate yourself to do the things you used to enjoy. Social situations may becomeunbearable. All these porn addiction symptoms - and their eventual disappearance - have been reportedby our users.10 www.NoFap.com/getting-startedCopyright 2016 NoFap LLC. All Rights Reserved.NoFap is a registered trademark owned by NoFap LLC.
Getting Started with NoFap Experience erectile dysfunction?The Simple PIED Test.Fortunately you can make a quick assessment of potential PIED at home. The Simple PIED Testshould tell you if your erection problems could be related to porn use.Masturbate without porn using just physical sensation. Avoid unrealistic fantasising and certainlyavoid recalling porn this time, try to mainly focus on the sensation. After a suitable gap, use porn tomasturbate, even to climax if you suspect a problem with ejaculation. If you’re already abstinent fromporn then try to replay some of your favorite porn scenes in your head.If you are able to get and keep an erection using porn but can’t without it, then you may have PIED.But how do you know? If you can get an erection during this test, then physical problems aren’t your issue. And,as you are alone during the tests, you shouldn’t suffer from performance anxiety.If you are able to successfully complete both these tests, but fail to successfully have sex with a partner, yourproblem might be related to performance anxiety or another non-physical cause. If you cannot achieve anerection at all, even while watching pornography, a trip to the doctor might be in order to rule out any physicalcause.This test is a quick and ready reckoner and if you are suffering from ED you should talk to a medicalprofessional.To simplify, excessive porn use can train the brain to regard pornography as a better, more convenient,and near-effortless way of having an orgasm instead of having sex with a real person. Therefore, it investsthe sex drive into porn instead of real people. Eventually some porn addicts cannot get aroused by realpeople, no matter how attracted they might be to their sexual partner, but have no problem getting turnedon by pornography.Porn addiction, like any addiction, can significantly decrease your quality of life. This is la
Getting Started with NoFap How to use the NoFap platform to reach your goals Quit porn through the “rebooting” process Conquer out-of-control sexual behaviors Pursue beneficial habits Live your ideal sexual lifestyle Chase your dreams
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